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“It was causing my placenta to die in places,” said Laura.
“I wasn’t sure I wanted to try again. But Professor Quenby said she had helped women with this successfully.
“I thought if there’s that one bit of hope, I had to try again. I spoke to Dave about it and he felt the same.
“I told myself, this is the last time I’m doing this.”
After medication to improve the lining of Laura’s womb, the couple conceived naturally for the 14th time.
Prof Quenby said they used steroids to suppress Laura’s immune system to allow the pregnancy to progress beyond 24 weeks, when babies have a chance of surviving. Drugs helped stop her blood clotting.
“The steroids do have side effects,” said Prof Quenby. “But we both decided it was worth one more go.”
After so many tragedies, Laura and Dave said they did not dare to dream this pregnancy would work.
“We didn’t really tell anyone. It was the hardest thing to keep in but the hardest thing to share. I just kept thinking if we tell people, we’re going to jinx it,” said Laura.
And then, at 30 weeks, Laura was in bed at home when her waters broke. Ivy was delivered by caesarean section while Laura was under a general anaesthetic. She weighed just 1.7 lbs, about the same as a Christmas pudding.
“My husband saw her first. He showed me a photo of her when I woke up,” said Laura, whose daughter had been taken straight to a neonatal incubator in intensive care.
It was three days before they could hold her. The new parents were warned Ivy might develop sepsis but she continued to thrive.
“I just thought, she’s a fighter. She just kept going forward all the time, she never went back,” said Laura.
For Prof Quenby, it was two months before she dared to visit Ivy on the ward.
“I was delighted she was here but I just couldn’t bear to see her until I knew she was ok. I’d ask the nurses to go and see her for me but I was too scared.”
After 11 weeks in hospital, which included recovering from bronchiolitis, Ivy was able to go home.
She is now nine months old, and Laura’s case is being highlighted globally as an example of how women with her conditions could still have successful pregnancies.
“I look at her and think ‘miracles do happen’, said Laura. “I’d read about other people’s miracles, and now I’ve got mine.”
“Laura’s case is benefitting people across the world,” said Prof Quenby. “Many in her situation would have given up, but she just kept going.”
Laura and Dave held a baby shower for Ivy – after she was born – and raised more than £1,000, which they have donated to the hospital’s charity.
“It’s so important to be able to make a difference for anyone else going through what I went through,” she said.
“Through my story I want to give others the hope and strength to carry on even when things seem impossible.”